it's supposed to be 'mild' weather here, but i don't know if i believe that. i was just at the sigma chi soccer game and it was pretty darn cold (they lost, to fiji, by the way. sad times). so i don't know what's up with that.
what i also don't understand is this fellow i know. i'm good friends with his sister and i'm over at their house all the time. and i thought i was at least sort of friends with him. but he de-friended me on facebook a week or so ago. so i asked him about it. he said he got in a bad mood and deleted people he didn't talk to. i think he just deleted me. so i sent him a nice message saying if he needed to talk or anything, even though it's none of my business, i just wanted to offer an ear. just being nice. that's how i am... i'm a sympathetic person up here. he didn't even bother to reply. a day before i sent that, even, his sister and i were talking and she told me how upset he was and i offered to pick him up some ice cream during my break from classes to cheer him up, on behalf of the two of us. he barely said thanks. i think he's a jerk, but i don't dare tell my friend any of this, because she really loves her brother, and i really don't want it to seem like a big deal, but i thought it was the first instance of absolute rudeness i'd encountered here. and it really kind of upset me.
i'm glad i've written that. he was rude to me. i wasn't trying to hit on him or anything, just offer. i always appreciate people offering things when i feel down. maybe he doesn't. but it was still rude. he still hasn't re-friended me.
i might be getting an apartment in january. i certainly hope so. i'm just so tired of living in the dorms. it's not for me anymore. and i know tons of people now and so it won't be like at uga.
i think i might go to athens, by the way, the weekend of the 12th for the auburn game. i miss my friends. i think i'll take lindsey (my big) and my twin (her new little) a present. i was going to mail them, but this will be funner, i think.
sometimes, rudeness is really obvious, like that guy. and sometimes it's just laziness. but they both hurt feelings just the same. and sometimes things you have to say hurt feelings. but the truth is, we all have faults that we have to work hard to make not such a big deal. and that effort is all the difference in the world.
i want someone to scratch my back.
love
lindsey.